All of the sudden, thought of something that I spoken during the past, sound ridiculous to me.
I felt that it really depend on his family situation if he want to move on and continue to further his studies. He really cant blame people whom he assume they can take responsibility for him.
Even though, he has done it, during the process, he has to take his responsibility to pass all his modules not me, I am not the one who took his exam. Similarly, he was not the one who took my exam as well. Plus, facing with his course coordinator, he doesn’t know I am also faced the same problem (that couldn’t resolved in a short period of time).
In conclusion, he cant push the blame to people, during the process, he was the one who handle it, if he fail to do this, that’s his path, not me.
I can do it because I am the one who want to achieve it so I took the responsibility to study hard and passed all the modules. And did I ever blame my mother, my boyfriend or my friend that I passed or failed? THE ANSWER IS NO!
I’ve achieved it, doesn’t mean I will look down on people. I have to be really humble, because of what I am standing previously, I am proud to say I am from ITE graduate previously, I’ve worked hard to achieve my goals. Is it a crime as well? I should be the one who influenced people to further studies. Is it a crime as well?
As a friend, an advice and some consultation make them think other alternative ways in order to go for the right path.
Advising people is not a crime yet he said something hurtful to me.
I felt that during his age, he is still so immature in thinking. If he felt so 自卑, he should reflect and start planning his goals and achieve it.
Plus I am neither his mother nor his wife. I am his friend who advise people yet is a crime to him.